Settlement Story of Krishna Arora
I came to Australia to be with my daughter and her family. I was looking to experience a retired life. However, when I retired it was totally different from what I expected. I left my job and the knowledge and skills acquired, certificates of qualifications and awards lost their value as I entered a different world. I realised that I had achieved a lot in my career and I felt it was not required anymore. I felt that I was in a deep valley. Being with my family was a bright spot in my life.
I felt I had to start my life all over again. I would have to make new friends and completely change my way of living. I was fortunate enough to know a group of people from India who were my ex-students. They would visit me or we would talk on the phone but they were all very busy so I met them once in a while.
Living in Australia was very different from India. The Australians seemed to keep to themselves, seldom they smiled or talked to strangers. When using public transport, I did not feel welcome. I felt as if the Australians avoided sitting next to the non-whites. Their accent was difficult to understand.
I came from a country that had friendly people and I knew my neighbourhood well. To keep myself busy I started doing volunteer work for MECWA where I worked seven years. I also worked as a volunteer for Meals on Wheels in the kitchen.
After living in Australia and getting to know the Australian people, I have changed my opinion and I have a greater understanding of their way of life. The Multicultural Policy is one of the best things the Government introduced. Australians are more tolerant and friendly. Indian restaurants are full of Australians. They have started to be adventurous by eating Indian food.
I was very surprised with the weather in Australia as it can be so erratic. In summer, the weather can be cold and sometimes rain. I am now used to this kind of weather.
In India we had house helps who did the shopping for us and carried the heavy shopping parcels. In Australia I have had to carry my own shopping. The majority of Indians who came to Australia held high positions and were well qualified. They were used to domestic helps.
I stopped driving, as the driving speed in Australia was too fast. I do not regret this as the public transport in Australia is very good and I am used to it.
I did not change my dress when coming to Australia. I am comfortable in the traditional Indian dress, Sari.
To pass time and to feel content in a new country, I got involved in various things such as volunteer and community work.
I have a keen interest in cooking. I have enjoyed being in Australia as there were many Indians who were interested in trying out new dishes. I have not only contributed to the Indian community but to other communities also. I have been writing recipes for a monthly Indian newspaper named Indian Voice.
I taught Asian cooking to Australians for two years at the Maribyrnong Community Centre. I have also given cooking demonstrations at the Immigration Museum, Girls' Guides and two schools.
I have enjoyed working for the community. I think people who migrate to Australia, adjust to Australian life according to what is available and they enjoy the Australian way of life.
Updated: 16 October 2006
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